Lock up his cock. Tell him he'll get an orgasm in a week. Then remove the cage, edge him a few times, but don't let him cum. Then stick him back in the cage and tell him that's what happens to cuck's who can't keep their hands off of their cocks. ^^ that's one thing you could try. I have no idea if it would actually work well in your dynamic. Have you ever talked with him about what kinds of things would feel like a punishment if he disobeyed you?

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